It’s completely normal and understandable to be feeling angry when your mom or another loved one has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Cancer is unfair and often brings up a multitude of complicated emotions. When I was diagnosed, it was not only a shock to me, but to my family as well. My kids, despite …
Mental Health
Metamorphosis and breast cancer. Why I wear a butterfly pendant
Ever since my diagnosis, I’ve been drawn to symbols of resilience, strength, and transformation, finding comfort and inspiration in them while navigating my own journey through breast cancer. Among these symbols, it’s a small butterfly pendant – barely the size of my fingernail that carries the most profound meaning and resonates with my spirit. My …
Surgeon, See the Woman, Not Just the Patient
Breast cancer is more than a medical condition; it’s a life-altering journey that indelibly marks the body and the soul. As a breast cancer survivor who chose aesthetic flat closure (AFC), I’ve learned the profound importance of a surgeon’s understanding and empathy. I understand that surgeons are trained to dissect, diagnose, and even disconnect. Your …
Medical Gaslighting and Women’s Health – a Breast Cancer “Rebel” Speaks Up
Many of us instinctively turn to medical professionals when we encounter health problems, entrusting them with physical, emotional and mental health well-being. Unfortunately, there can be a hidden struggle that is rarely exposed. It’s called medical gaslighting and its a struggle that arises when medical practitioners dismiss or minimize the concerns of patients, particularly women. …
Your Friend Has Just Been Diagnosed With Breast Cancer – How You Can Help
A dear friend has just shared the news of their breast cancer diagnosis. Your heart aches and your mind swirls as you grapple with this sudden reality. As their confidante and supporter, you may find yourself wondering, “What next? And, how can I help?” Firstly, providing a listening ear is invaluable. She is likely in …